• It is deeply sad that people who met in distant lands, who built genuine friendships free of prejudice, cannot freely cross a border to celebrate each other’s most important life moments.
•  To the authorities in India and Pakistan, I say this with humility and sincerity: this is the 21st century. The world is interconnected in ways unimaginable to previous generations.

By Abdullah Usman Morai | Sweden

Today, 2026-02-22, my dear friend Ram is getting married in Mysore, India, to his Swedish partner. As the rituals begin under the warm South Indian sky, as flowers are woven into garlands and sacred vows are whispered around the fire, I sit thousands of kilometers away, carrying both joy and a quiet ache in my heart.

I have known Ram since 2008. We were young guest students then, navigating new lives in Stockholm. We had arrived from different corners of the world, South Asia especially, India, Pakistan, and Bangladesh. We were strangers in a cold Nordic city, bound not by borders but by homesickness, ambition, and the shared uncertainty of youth.

In those early days, friendships formed easily. We studied together in libraries, cooked meals that tasted like memory, argued about politics we barely understood, and laughed at our own broken Swedish. Many of those friends slowly disappeared. Some returned home. Some moved to other countries. Some simply drifted away, as life often demands. But Ram remained.

Life took him to Gothenburg for work, where he stayed for years before eventually returning to Stockholm. Our meetings became rare but meaningful. We would speak occasionally, catching up on careers, on the subtle ways life reshapes our dreams. Time thinned the frequency of our conversations but never the sincerity of our bond.

When Ram called to tell me he was getting married in Mysore and invited me to join the celebration along with our Swedish friends, I felt a surge of happiness. I imagined the vibrant colors, the music, and the rituals blending Indian tradition with Swedish simplicity. I imagined standing beside him, laughing about our student days, teasing him as he stepped into this new chapter of life.

But imagination was as far as I could go.

Though I’m Swedish citizen, I am originally from Pakistan. And we all know that relations between India and Pakistan are not ideal for welcoming each other’s citizens with ease. A border that is merely a line on the map becomes, in reality, a wall of paperwork, suspicion, and near impossibility.

And so, while our Swedish friends board their flights to India with excitement, I remain here, happy for my friend, yet quietly saddened by a distance that is not measured in kilometers but in history.

There is a deep irony in our story.

It was Sweden, a land far from our subcontinent that allowed us to understand one another. In Stockholm, an Indian and a Pakistani shared classrooms, meals, and dreams. We debated cricket scores and politics over coffee without fear. We discovered that our languages overlap, that our humor is similar, that our mothers worry the same way, and that our songs carry the same melancholy.

Thousands of kilometers away from home, we understood our neighboring countries better than we ever could while living side by side.

How strange that it took a foreign land to make us neighbors in spirit.

If India and Pakistan had warmer relations, how many such friendships would flourish naturally? How many weddings could be attended without anxiety? How many shared festivals, academic exchanges, business collaborations, and cultural celebrations could take place without being overshadowed by mistrust?

Today, as Ram ties the sacred knot in Mysore, I think not only of his marriage but of all the invisible knots that remain tied too tightly between our countries.

It is deeply sad that people who met in distant lands, who built genuine friendships free of prejudice, cannot freely cross a border to celebrate each other’s most important life moments. Weddings are not political events. They are human events. They are about love, continuity, and hope.

And hope is something our region desperately needs.

To the authorities in India and Pakistan, I say this with humility and sincerity: this is the 21st century. The world is interconnected in ways unimaginable to previous generations. Students travel across continents. Businesses operate globally. Digital communication has erased distances. Yet two neighboring nations remain separated not just by a border, but by rigid policies that punish ordinary people more than they protect national interests.

It is time to grow beyond inherited hostility.

Here are some humble suggestions for both governments:

1. Ease Visa Policies for Civilian Travel:

Introduce simplified, transparent, and time-bound visa processes for weddings, funerals, academic events, and tourism. Special short-term event visas could allow people to attend personal milestones without bureaucratic nightmares.

2. Promote Educational and Cultural Exchange:

Universities, artists, and researchers should be encouraged to collaborate. Joint academic programs and cultural festivals can humanize each side in ways political speeches never can.

3. Establish Humanitarian Travel Corridors:

Families divided by borders should not suffer for decades. Create dedicated channels for family visits and life events, monitored but humane.

4. Encourage People-to-People Diplomacy:

Civil society initiatives, youth forums, and business councils can build trust from the ground up. When citizens see each other as humans rather than headlines, fear begins to fade.

5. Depoliticize Personal Occasions:

Attending a wedding or celebrating a festival should never feel like crossing enemy lines. Separate human relationships from political disputes.

Security concerns are real, and no nation should compromise its safety. But compassion and security do not have to be opposites. A mature state can balance both.

Ram’s wedding is a symbol. It is the union of cultures, Indian and Swedish, made possible by openness and mobility. It shows what happens when borders are not barriers but bridges.

Sweden gave us the space to become friends. It allowed a Pakistani and an Indian to sit side by side, to learn, to grow, and to respect one another. If such understanding is possible in a distant northern country, why not between neighbors who share history, language, and bloodlines?

Perhaps one day, I will travel freely to Mysore, not as a foreigner viewed with suspicion, but as a friend attending a wedding. Perhaps one day, Ram will visit Pakistan without layers of bureaucracy. Perhaps the next generation’s children will read about hostility only in history books.

Until that day arrives, I send my blessings across the borders.

Ram, my friend, as you begin this new journey of love and companionship, may your marriage be filled with patience, laughter, and mutual respect. May your home be a bridge between cultures, a small example of what the world could look like if we chose connection over division!

And to those who are in power on both sides: grow. The world has changed. Your people deserve better. Let weddings be attended, friendships be honored, and neighbors be neighbors again.

Today, I celebrate you from afar, Ram, with happiness in my voice and a quiet sadness in my heart.

Read: Sindhis Elevating Beyond Comfort

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Abdullah Soomro, penname Abdullah Usman Morai, hailing from Moro town of Sindh, province of Pakistan, is based in Stockholm Sweden. Currently he is working as Groundwater Engineer in Stockholm Sweden. He did BE (Agriculture) from Sindh Agriculture University Tando Jam and MSc water systems technology from KTH Stockholm Sweden as well as MSc Management from Stockholm University. Beside this he also did masters in journalism and economics from Shah Abdul Latif University Khairpur Mirs, Sindh. He is author of a travelogue book named ‘Musafatoon’. His second book is in process. He writes articles from time to time. A frequent traveler, he also does podcast on YouTube with channel name: VASJE Podcast.

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By Ashir Rao

It’s April 8, 1782. The American Revolution is in its seventh year. Lieutenant Joshua Barney of the ragtag American revolutionary Continental Navy is covertly transporting five merchant ships in a convoy with three battleships. All of a sudden, a member of his crew spots three rapidly approaching British ships. They had been spotted! Putting the mission above all else, Barney orders two of his ships to retreat with the merchant ships. As he turns his lone ship around to fend off the assault, the name of his ship shines brightly in the morning sun.

Thousands of miles away from her namesake’s kingdom in India, the American ship “Hyder Ally” is alone in its defense of Delaware Bay.

When Americans began their freedom struggle, there were many powers who had much to gain from the losses of the British Empire. One such power was the Kingdom of Mysore in Southern India. The ruler, Hyder Ali, despised the East India Company. Having already fought a war with the East India Company, he was known far and wide for his gunpowder rockets. In the First Anglo-Mysore War. He successfully defended his kingdom against a joint attack by the East India Company, Maratha Confederacy, and Nawab of the Carnatic.

It is known that the Americans and the rulers of Mysore knew and respected each other. When the Declaration of Independence was signed, Tipu Sultan, son of Hyder Ali, sent a letter to the American Continental Congress in support of American independence

Mysore and the United States were connected through a common ally — the French. Hyder Ali believed that an alliance with the French was his best chance at driving the British out of India completely. In 1778, three years into the Revolutionary War, the French intervened on the side of the rebels in America. A war between France and Britain meant a global war — they both had colonies all over the world. From 1778 to 1779, the East India Company captured numerous French outposts in India. By 1780, these takeovers posed a threat to Mysore; a waning French presence would strengthen the British as an unchallenged power not only on land but also on the seas. Because of this, five years into the American Revolution, Mysore entered the war on the side of the French.

It is known that the Americans and the rulers of Mysore knew and respected each other. When the Declaration of Independence was signed, Tipu Sultan, son of Hyder Ali, sent a letter to the American Continental Congress in support of American independence. He wrote:

“Every blow that is struck in the cause of American liberty throughout the world, in France, India, and elsewhere and so long as a single insolent savage tyrant remains the struggle shall continue.”

The Lt. General of the Armies of France, Comte de Tressan, also referred to Haider Ali as a ‘brave Moghul Prince’.

It should be noted that Tipu Sultan remains a controversial figure in present discourse for religious overzealousness, especially towards his enemies. Many accounts detailing this were written by his enemies — the British. To this day there is a fierce debate over his legacy.

For a British Empire fighting a protracted war in America, Mysore was a problem. The British East India Company was running into serious losses. The British were forced to dedicate 1/5th of their navy to fend off the joint Mysorean-French assault on Company territory in India and the Indian Ocean. Though not directly allied, Mysore tipped the scales of the American Revolution by diverting key British resources to India.

The war in Mysore ended with the Battle of Cuddalore. The war had been going poorly for the British. The battle was a final attempt to capture an important port. The British began with a siege of the fortress at Cuddalore, which was defended by a joint French-Mysorean force. The French navy attempted to attack the blockading ships but were repelled. An attack by soldiers in the fort also failed. The siege was going well for the British. However, as the Russian winter drove back the Nazis in World War II, the Indian summer was the downfall of the British navy. Disease and thirst ravaged both sides, but the British were particularly affected. Eventually, the demoralized British force was forced to leave. The Mysoreans had won the war.

The strengthened French-Mysore forces chipped away at the British, forcing them to increasingly divert military resources to India. While a distracted British was a blessing for America, it was a curse for India in the long term. The reason for the American Revolutionary war was Britain taxing the Americans to pay for their wars. After the American refusal and subsequent war, Britain was still saddled with debt. With not enough revenue from the Americas, the British looked to India to pay for their debts. From then on, Britain focused on conquering India as it was much easier to divide and conquer India with so many small kingdoms.

Back to April 8, 1782 – After staring down three British ships, the Hyder Ally went on a false retreat. Two British ships — General Monk and Fair American — chased. The third British ship was positioned to prevent an escape. During the chase, a British ship — Fair American — ran aground. Having successfully converted the battle into a one-on-one fight between Hyder Ally and General Monk, American Lieutenant Joshua Barney fired his cannons at General Monk’s cannons, flipping them over and rendering them useless. As General Monk drifted closer to Hyder Ally, Barney shouted a false order that caused General Monk to turn and get entangled in Hyder Ally’s rigging. The Americans were prepared. They attached the enemy ship to theirs and opened fire with muskets from the top of the ship. The unrelenting volleys wreaked havoc on the British crew, inflicting heavy casualties. To prevent further losses, the crew of General Monk surrendered and the remaining British ships fled.

Just over a year later, America finally gained independence.

The British, now unencumbered on the American front, were able to focus on Indian Territory.

Benefiting from the French being weakened by an internal revolution, a British alliance of convenience with the Nizam of Hyderabad, and destructive fighting with Marathas, Mysore was finally defeated in 1799.

As the sun set in what was once the Kingdom of Mysore, it rose, an ocean away, in the land of freedom — America.

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Ashir Rao is a student at Los Gatos High School, CA. He likes programming and history — especially as it relates to current events.  

Courtesy: India Currents (Published on September 14, 2021)

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