Success is not merely about achieving external accolades or societal recognition
Zaheer Udin Babar Junejo
My life’s journey begins in a small village in rural Badin, surrounded by the loving care of my mother. At each stage of my growth, success seemed to be redefined. My first steps were cheered as a major accomplishment, and my ability to utter words at a young age earned me the title of an intelligent child. As I honed my skills and learned to write, more accolades followed, shaping my early perception of success. The higher school years brought competitive board exams, and with each triumph, society bestowed upon me the label of success. International university admission and obtaining a degree became new milestones, elevating my rank among my peers. As I ventured into the workforce and climbed the ladder of success, I realized that my journey was far from over.
As time passed, like others, I got married while still in the mid-level of my professional career. Success now seemed intertwined with having a balanced and ideal family life. But as I navigated the complexities of both personal and professional spheres, I discovered that meeting society’s expectations brought its own set of challenges. Though I excelled in various areas, there was always a sense of incompleteness, a desire to achieve something bigger. I continuously aimed for higher goals, pushing myself to achieve more. In this pursuit, I found myself chasing external validation, seeking approval from others to reaffirm my sense of accomplishment.
As the years went by, I came to a profound realization. Success was not merely about achieving external accolades or societal recognition. True success lay in being content with what I had and finding satisfaction within myself. I understood that my journey in life was not about pleasing others but about exploring my own true worth. With this newfound perspective, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery. I learned to prioritize my own happiness and fulfillment above societal expectations. I sought to understand my passions, values, and dreams, aligning my actions with my true self. I started writing more and explaining less. As life’s end seems near, I understood that success is not defined by what others thought of me when I am gone. Instead, it is the impact I made during my time on this earth that truly matters. My contributions, which are sometimes overlooked in life, would be recognized and appreciated when I am no more. I am sure when the time comes to bid my final goodbye, my head would be turned towards the holy place, a symbol of a life lived with purpose and meaning.
My life’s journey which is now about to hit half century, taught me that success is not a fixed destination but a continuous exploration of self-worth and fulfillment. It is not about meeting others’ expectations but about understanding and valuing oneself. This is the story of everyone, but hardly do we think and get inspired by it, to seek our own definition of success, one that resonates with their true essence, and to live a life guided by our own unique purpose.
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Zaheer Udin Babar Junejo is a Development Professional based in Hyderabad, Sindh.
