They must be trusted to develop their confidence. The independent girls always can handle their own situations, good or bad.
The women are playing their due role in the society. In many sectors they are competing with the men and in some cases they are on the top.
Women are serving the country in various professions. Recently, during outbreak of Covid-19 the lady doctors played their role very well while in other professions they also do their best.
Why the women shouldn’t be free to go where they want or to wear whatever they want? They must be trusted to develop their confidence. The independent girls always can handle their own situations, good or bad. Strong and independent girls never have trouble making their voice heard, and ensuring any decision involving them directly is a reflection on their choices.
But the haters seem to be everywhere these days — from the early days of Facebook, Twitter and Instagram, legions of these anonymous Internet users can often be found crawling at the bottom of message boards, spouting vitriol at every turn. The independent girls can often find themselves the target of such attacks, but thankfully never rise to it or give it the time or oxygen it requires to survive.
It also goes without saying that no strong, independent girl is a troll herself. Trolling is harmful, abusive, and utterly repugnant. All it serves is the symbol of the emptiness of a person’s life that they need to fill it with anger and resentment.
Strong, independent girls never rise to haters’ bait — they’re usually too busy living the life they want to lead to care or take notice anyway. One of the fundamental things that a strong, independent girl does not do is let other people hold sway over her confidence and self-esteem. Your body is just fine the way it is, and the projections of perfection that the media brings about are harmful.
Strong, independent girls do not let themselves become affected. They carry their heads high and no matter their shape, size, skin color, gender identity or form of self-expression, they own themselves. The things that make them stand out become their greatest assets. No strong, independent girl ever lets herself feel bad about being herself.
Yusra Shaikh
Student of Pharmacy, People’s University of Medical and Health Sciences Nawabshah Sindh.
