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Every parent has to treat their children equally

Every parent has to treat their children equallyEvery parent has to treat their children equally. We have to change the perspective of ancient thinking which is no more logical – the thinking that there must be a cage for a daughter.

Public Opinion

Parents generally impose restrictions on their daughters, presumably for their good future and the right path but why they do not restrict their sons who must have developed a lot of bad habits including smoking, and without informing their parents they go out all day. They do not say a single word to their sons because, according to a dominant factor, the boys are their successors. If a girl goes out, it does not mean she is slut. Even, she has the right to live her life in her own way but their parents build a beautiful cage for her to survive inside it without knowing that she can fly high with luminous color beyond the clouds to make their parents proud. Alas!

The conservative society and the narrow-minded people would not leave a girl to feel free and fly high. I am of the opinion that the role of our mothers is very important in everyone’s life. If she is positive, so the result will be, but if she loves her pride, it means other things haven’t any value.

The Sigmund Freud has used a term ‘Oedipal complex’, also known as the Oedipus complex, in his theory of psychosexual stages of development to describe a child’s feelings of desire for his or her opposite-sex parent and jealousy and anger toward his or her same-sex parent. It has been proved in Oedipus complex that the reason mothers love their sons rather than daughters, is logical.

However, there are equal rights for both genders in Islam and humanities. So, no one has the right to neglect their daughters or a girl in this society. We have to make our society to think positively and help those who are helpless. We have to change the perspective of ancient thinking which is no more logical – the thinking that there must be a cage for a daughter.

Every parent has to treat their children equally.

Maria Khushk

Hyderabad, Sindh

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