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Why We Capture Every Moment?

The Balance between Memory and Presence

nasiraijaz May 22, 2025

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Cameras can freeze a scene, but only your heart can hold the feeling.

It’s okay to capture what’s important to you, but try to make the most of that moment too.

By Faiqa Khan

In today’s photo-driven world, we examine why we document so much—and how it affects our connection to the moments themselves. Discover the fine line between preserving memories and truly living them.

In this fast-paced world, where everything seems to slip through our hands, we try to hold on to fleeting moments with a simple click. With our phones always in reach, it’s become second nature to capture everything—meals, sunsets, outfits, coffee cups, achievements, and even our highs and lows. At first glance, it feels cute, fun, and maybe even harmless. But what lies beneath this habit? Is it the desire to preserve memories—or the urge to prove something to the world? Are we afraid of forgetting… or of not being seen?

There are certain moments in life you never want to forget—where every detail feels too precious to lose. Like spending time with your grandparents. You know that each moment is a gift, and deep down, you fear the day when these experiences become only memories. So, you try to capture them. You take a photo, hoping to preserve not just their faces, but the feeling—their wrinkled eyes, grey hair, and the gentle smile that says everything words cannot.

There are hundreds of such moments worth remembering. Because the world doesn’t stay the same. Circumstances shift. People—once at the center of our lives—drift away. And when they do, memories are all we have left. A childhood photo, for example, stirs something unexplainable. You may not recall the moment itself, but seeing that younger version of you brings a strange comfort. It reminds you of who you were—and how far you’ve come.

But memory preservation isn’t always the reason we take photos. Often, it’s about keeping up—with trends, with aesthetics, with everyone else. Social media has quietly turned moments into performances. We no longer just go to cafés; we go to take that picture. The coffee might be bitter, but if the cup looks cute, it’s worth it.

Many people won’t touch their food until the lighting is right and the angle perfect. Because if you don’t post it, did it really happen? The value of an outing now lies in how post-worthy it is—not how present you felt.

In this world of curated feeds, some even fake moments altogether. I recently found out a few people uploaded videos from a concert they never attended—borrowing clips from someone else just to appear part of the scene.

We’re no longer just capturing life—we’re constructing it for others to witness. And somewhere along the way, the line between memory and performance began to blur.

Often, we get so busy trying to capture a moment that we forget to actually live it. We’re more focused on taking the perfect picture than soaking in the atmosphere, the laughter, the conversations, the feeling of being there. While photos can help us remember, overdoing it can reduce our emotional connection to the moment itself.

Instead of remembering the joy of being present, we often recall only what we wore, what we ate, or how the photo turned out. A study even suggests that people remember less when they’re busy photographing an event, as their minds disengage from what’s happening in real time.

That’s not to say we should stop taking pictures altogether. But sometimes, the best moments are the ones you don’t post—because you were too immersed in them. So, once in a while, put your phone down. Let the moment be felt, not just captured. Let yourself be part of the memory—not just the one who took the picture.

Photos are a reminder that we got to live something worth remembering—but they shouldn’t be the only reason to make memories. It’s okay to capture what’s important to you, but try to make the most of that moment too. Try to remember the laughter you shared, the taste of ice cream on a rainy day with friends. Because cameras can freeze a scene, but only your heart can hold the feeling.